Provincetown

Phone conversation with Allison tonight. Friends of ours got married on the Cape this weekend, and I’d already talked to Eric, who’d officiated the ceremony as a temporary justice of the peace, about the wedding. But when girls talk about bridal gowns, they need more and different adjectives than engineers like Eric like to give. (Although, Eric did have a short description of the gown, when I’d been expecting him to say “it was a dress”). Allison is one of my UMass crowd, but now she and her husband live in Texas, so they combined the trip to the wedding with a Mass vacation.

Allison: … and then we went to Provincetown.

Meg: Did you go to all the bookstores?

Allison:  And all the sex shops.

Meg: We have different priorities.

Allison: I said “and”!

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American Mei You

I planned to write a post about starting a job today, teaching SAT prep. Towards the end of the job interview, when we were talking about where to park and what time to arrive, the main teacher (I’m the assistant) happened to mention that it’s a Chinese Saturday school, hosted in the Sunday school rooms of a Baptist mega-church.

I loved coming in this morning, listening to the rhythm of Mandarin conversations, and watching the exchange of mooncakes. I meant to write about how Chinatown, NC found me, smiling at the Beijing 2008 shirts as I looked for my classroom, down hallways full of religious art, prayers on posters and Sunday School projects. I would have felt a bit ignored wandering hall like this in Beijing, but somehow in Raleigh I like being Clark Kent, with my Krypton superpower to understand baby Mandarin, hidden by my American costume.

The prep class went well, we began with Latin roots of SAT words. The main teacher is American, I almost wrote “foreigner”, as if there is just a thing as foreigner in the native-less transplant city of Raleigh. Things ran as expected, down to the familiarity of last-minute copies and an empty copier. This is the fifth or sixth time in my life that I’ve been faced with a lack of paper and of English speakers, you’d think I would have it down by now, but I cannot get beyond Mei you je ge and and pointing to the paper.

I was driving back after class, thinking about how I would write about the school/church, which is literally on the corner of Dixie and Friendly, one of those fantastic moments when I know I’ll be accused of exaggerating.

I noticed, then, that a gas station I passed had taken their prices down. I thought I’d just caught moment as they were increasing the prices, but then I passed another, and another, without any numbers on their sign. I pulled into one, and they’d tied plastic bags over the pumps, and hung a sign. Raleigh is out of gas.

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Thoughts On Twitter

I’ve heard that blogging breaks the barriers between Author and Audience. Well, Twitter breaks the barrier between blogger and commenter. It’s group instant messaging or microblogging for your phone or on the web. Whenever Stick’s dad asks me about a tech buzzword, I make an offline comparision and end with “Like one of those, but faster.” Slower offline Twitter would be, um, talking.

I’m not crazy about the blend between group messaging because I follow parts of different Twitter-crowds so a lot of the time I hear half a conversation. (Also because my China friends have this obnoxious habit of posting in Chinese, but I think my troubles with Mandarin are my own problem and not Twitter’s) Also there’s a lot of the boring side of blogging, what folks ate for lunch and what they watched on TV.

I do like the quick chatting with distant friends, and the instant transmission of information, especially the on-the-spot reporting of China news. My dad told me a story about some soviet country in media lockdown, where local ham radio operators reported and relayed the news abroad (or something like that, I was little). I really enjoy the hearing news from my friends — and I have some pretty far-flung friends — on blogs and by email, and then comparing that to the official news. Twitter is accessible by cellphone, which means tweeting from the subway (not going to name names here, but SOMEONE I know really likes to do this!), which means instant reporting from Twitterati on handhelds across the world.

I should admit that even though it’s cool and cyberpunk, I  don’t have Twitter updates going directly to my phone unless they’re specifically targeted to me. It would be a cool future feature if we could tag tweets as high-priority, so I could get news without a constant buzz of “@somebody yeah lol” on my phone. I’m sure some spammers would abuse that tag, but it would still be a cool feature.

I’m surprised by how fast Twitter developed spam, and how fast that spam found me. I get these “SoAndSo is following you on Twitter!” messages, only to find out the SoAndSo is selling something or aggressively promoting their site. There’s been a lot of chat about good Twitterquette, my own take is that tweeting a blog post, mentioning your new site and promoting a story you like are all fine. But endless posts pointing to one site or misleading links (which is even easier with the use of TinyURL or a similar program to reduce the characters in a link) is spammy.

Anyway, if you get on Twitter, I’m creatively named simpsonsparadox.

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Quick Couple Lines on Palin

Quote from China blogger Matt Schiavenza on Palin, Obama and the media:

The Republicans paint the Alaska Governor as the moose-hunting hockey mom the whole party can love. The Democrats seem to be employing a shoot-the-moon strategy, trying to raise enough doubts about Palin that she becomes a major liability.

If I were Obama, I’d ignore her. Why? The media will investigate Palin on its own, as any young journalist worth his salt will vie to be the One Who Brought Her Down. This isn’t the “liberal media”, simply how things work in a competitive industry.

Couldn’t agree more, Matt!

Via Matt Schiavenza – Ignore Her

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Exceeds Expectations

Last night while Stick was playing the new evolution game Spore, he announced excitedly “Meg! I’ve become sentient!”

Let the record state that I made no response.

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Sabado Gigante

I was on Sabado Gigante this weekend! Stick thinks I should probably say that “we” were on Sabado Gigante, but you can probably guess that the guy on his knee, in the Beijing duck restaurant, proposing to me is Stick. (If you don’t want to reread the story, we ran into Don Fransisco at Da Dong Roast Duck in Beijing a few months ago, and he coerced Stick into proposing on Unavision camera.) We’ve been promising to get married in regards to car insurance, but telling our friends and family not to pressure and that it’ll happen when it’s the right time.  Don Fransisco, it seems, has some pretty serious powers of persuasion.

Stick just happened to catch it as he was flipping channels, but he managed to get most of the show TiVoed, and I’ll post it the clip once I figure out how to get it off the TV, or when someone else puts it on YouTube. If you happened to see it, the couple laughing hysterically at the whole thing are our dear friends Hugo and Diana. Actually, now that I think about it… it was Hugo who wanted to go to Da Dong and Diana who recognized Don Fransisco… I kind of wonder if they set us up!

“Hey, did you watch Stick’s proposal?” I asked Char, Stick’s stepmom, when Stick’s parents came home the next day, “It’s saved under Sabado Gigante on your TiVo!”

“That little %&$#! He didn’t really propose!” Char said. “He just said ‘I want you to be my wife’… that doesn’t count!”

Related: Stick’s Sabado Gigante proposal!

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My Internet Buddy, Barack

Related: Recent post on how much I love Obama for using Twitter.

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“History”

Maybe these books werewritten by “professors” or published by a “university”. I would have included a second shot so you can see which “historians” made this category, but the salesgirl told me I wasn’t allowed to take pictures since the store had paid to have the sign designed. True story.

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The 440 Is Not A Ring Road

I don’t really like to drive. I think it’s that tiny margin of error between commuting and death that really bothers me. I try to accept that while the rest of the world sees “run out to the store” as one smooth action, I see it as a series of almost insurmountable tasks. Back out, merge, change lanes, park, etc., all done with my white knuckles at 10 and 2.

In addition to not liking the actual driving part, we had paperwork from three states to deal with in order to get  me licensed, get our car back on the road, insured and registered in NC. We couldn’t insure the car because we needed to register it in NC, but Stick couldn’t get the car registered without an original social security card, I have my social security card but the car’s in Stick’s name, so we’d have to transfer the title but it’s an out-of-state title, so first we’d have to… nevermind, no one in their right mind wants to read through it all.  When Stick called to put me on his AAA card, he was told they don’t cover girlfriends, only fiances. (And if anyone from AAA fraud is reading my blog, you can take it up with Don Fransisco.)

Things are getting better, though. I managed to turn the radio on the other day, and pretty soon passengers will be allowed to talk in the car.

Related: Stick’s Sabado Gigante proposal!

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Stick Plans For The Future

“When I was looking at job boards,” Stick told me last night, “I found a perfect job for Evil Incarnate.” Evil Incarnate is an ex-boyfriend, the one who bears striking resemblance to my love-hate struggles with Mandarin. I suppose the name says it all.

“Send it along,” I said, “He’s not that all happy where he’s working now.”

“No, the job’s down in NC.” Stick said. (EI lives in Mass.) “Although if he moves down here, we’d have another player for a D&D run!”

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