Incubator

A few days ago, I went to see the demos for the Triangle Start-up Factory incubator over at the American Tobacco Campus.  I went for work, but I was excited to go. I thought it would be smart to connect with local startups, meet interesting folks in the tech community, see what’s emerging, etc., etc.,  all kinds of optimistic hopes that I’ll look really hard and stay positive and eventually find good things to make a life here.

The keynotes were a bit depressing, because whenever people talk about how the Triangle is hip and high tech and happening and just as awesome as New York and Silicon Valley, it really highlights that I’m in a place that needs to talk itself up for a while first.

I did get the info for a good piece on PopUp,  over at TapScape:

There’s a lot of potential here for cute, asynchronous social fun with this app. It would be great fun to see that a friend took a goofy Instagram at this landmark, and take my own picture doing the same thing at the same spot.

Of course, cute social photos aren’t how PopUp would monetize. PopUp’s presentation discussed how businesses could use these location-based pop-ups to advertise.

The PopUp team suggested that a possible use would be for a business advertising, via PopUp, to shoppers in a competitor’s store. This is delightfully scifi, but easily becomes a disaster of constant push adverts, like the one envisioned in M.T. Anderson’s dark future in the novel Feed. The nightmare use of PopUp is, say, stopping for coffee at Bedford Hill Coffee Shop, and getting an advert from every other coffeeshop in my hipster Brooklyn neighborhood, Franklin Street Coffee, Daily Grounds, and Starbucks for good measure, plus a local gym reminding me that cappuccino froth should be burned on the elliptical, and my bank suggesting I use my credit card to earn cashback on my coffee purchase.

PopUp seemed fun in a scifi way, and I did have some interesting conversations at the event.

Still, the best part of the day was the presentation from a startup called Offline Media. The rant about how awful it is that everyone uses social media instead of really socializing is unpleasant from curmudgeons. It’s hilarious from young hipsters who are seeking investors in the online social app they’ve made to save us from online socialization. Anyway, seems like Offline is Meetup for people who, um, haven’t heard of Meetup, I guess.

Joke’s on me, though. I signed up immediately because maybe there’s something cool happening here but only people who are Offline know about it.

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Exemplary Reportage, Comrades

The Onion recently ran a piece calling DPRK leader Kim Jung-un the sexiest man alive. While most of us giggled at it and forwarded it to our Korean expat friends, the Chinese state paper, the People’s Daily, ran with the news, and included a 50-photo gallery of Kim. It’s down now, of course, but the folks at Shanghaiist are no strangers to disappearing People’s Daily headlines and grabbed a photo. Then The Onion  added a line thanking the People’s Daily for their exemplary reportage, comrades.

I wrote a few weeks ago about wild headlines, wild truths, and being unable to tell fact from satire, and started thinking about how the People’s Daily could have done this. There’s more to it than just shrugging and saying that the state-sponsored media is a joke.

When I lived in China, The Onion was blocked by the Great Firewall. I wonder if it recently become unblocked, or the People’s Daily staff were permitted to access portions of it for foreign research, but because of the Great Firewall, they were unfamiliar with it and lacked any context to determine credibility. This would be an appropriate cautionary tale about the difficulties of decent journalism with censored sources.

Unless a hardworking journalist cleverly got around the Great Firewall to get a great international scoop… Then it’s very sad.

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Knights of Pen & Paper

New review of Knights of Pen & Paper up on Hardcore Droid:

Knights of Pen & Paper, from indie Behold Studios, simulates a D&D tabletop campaign, in which players encounter campy tabletop monsters and running dramatic rescues. From the beginning, the game tells a hilarious and engaging story. Players first select their players, blending a collection of personalities like Little Brother, pink-haired Flowers, a Hipster, and an Extraterrestrial with individual special powers and the usual character classes.

Players — that’s you, not the eight-bit Hipster Mage and Little Brother Warrior party members — then determine the campaign’s plot and plan battles for the players. Knights of Pen & Paper presents two interlocking and participatory narratives, with a campy fantasy adventure and a nerd gaming session.

via Knights of Pen and Paper Review – Android Game | Android Role-Playing Games Reviews | Hardcore Droid.

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My Internal Monologue, #4

What!?!? You’ve heard of us?! REALLY?!?!? But… you’re not my boyfriend or my immediate family member…  Wow.

– Was not my actual response to hearing that someone’s got a subscription to Indie Game Mag, but I am pretty sure the dumbstruck expression might have given my feelings away. I’ve often imagined how it would feel to have strangers tell me they’ve read my work, but in my head there was a lot more quiet pride and lot less open-mouthed shock.

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Primordia

I’ve got a new post on IGM about the upcoming Primordia,  developed by Wormwood Studios, and published by Wadjet Eye, with music by Nate Chambers!

Normally, a game with a publisher seems like the opposite of indie, but we’ll make an exception for the awesome indie producers Wadjet Eye Games, the team behind Puzzle Bots, Gemini Rue and the Blackwell series, among others. Actually, IGM’s written lots about Wadjet Eye Games’ previous titles, and Alex Wilkinson recently blogged about Primordia and shared the trailer, and Mike Gnade met with Wadjet Eye’s Dave Gilbert about Wadjet Eye’s past and future projects.

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Primordia has just been declined by Steam, which is a bit surprising to me because Steam does offer several other Wadjet Eye titles.  Interestingly, one of the topics Mike and Dave chatted about was Steam’s initial rejection of Wadjet Eye Games’ Gemini Rue, and what Dave and his team did to eventually get it released on Steam. Would-be Primordia players who’d like to see this game on Steam can show their support here.

via “Primordia” Preorders Begin Today | The Indie Game Magazine

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My Internal Monologue, #3

Only because I really want to be on this project.

– Things I did not actually say when asked if I could still hit deadline, even though I received the required documents and parameters a week late.

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Mei You

I’m back in Brooklyn, but I left both my DVD of Harry Potter 1 and my Circle of Friends paperback with Harold in Chapel Hill. At the time, I thought it was symbolic of my commitment to the relationship, in spite of the stupid distance thing. But now all my favorite coping mechanisms are in North Carolina! What am I going to do?

Relationships are very hard.

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Relationship Page

So Facebook has started making relationship pages for users in relationships. This is a typical Facebook move, because it magically turned up, there’s no way to opt-out, and there’s already the predictable backlash of privacy concerns. By now we all know that the best way to keep information private is NOT by sharing it on Facebook, right? Because I was writing about Facebook introducing new features that use shared users’ info in unexpected ways back in 2006.

The Facebook relationship page falls short … for two reasons. First, the Facebook relationship page is public, although why anyone wants to view it is still beyond me, and second, users can’t curate the content in any way, whether by highlighting wedding photos or hiding that lame post about losing one’s cellphone. This creates a generic, automatic page, listing the movies both parties mutually enjoy, and all the links they’ve tagged each other in. Oh, and you can’t turn off your relationship page.

Who’s going to be even a little bit interested in looking at a relationship page? The couple probably knows more shared favorite movies than happen to be mutually listed on Facebook, and probably has better photos,  too. I can’t imagine that anyone outside the relationship would care.

Perhaps the point is to encourage users to add more likes, adding their shared movies, books, and interests, to fill out a bare relationship page. Facebook adverts are big business, and the more information a user shares, the better advertisers can target their ads. With one’s age, gender, location, relationship status, employer, and all of one’s hobbies listed, Facebook is a data mine for behavior patterns, shopping trends, and targeted ads. Could the purpose behind Facebook’s relationship pages be not a benefit for users in relationships, but a benefit for advertisers interested in better targeted ads?

Via Facebook’s New Relationship Pages – Tapscape

I haven’t actually updated my relationship status, and I get a lot of enjoyment from the goofy dating adverts that are sent to single women of a certain age.

(Hmm… I also got one from a dating psychic promising to get my ex back in a certain number of days, but I can’t seem to find that one.)

I’ve been avoiding the bridal bombardment that’s sure to come when I update my relationship status to engaged (Whoa, I am getting married!). Who wouldn’t take wacky adverts over the pre-wedding nerves I seem to get whenever I see puffy white dresses? And now, being engaged will also set up a relationship page, where anyone on Facebook (who is really, really desperately bored, and behind some kind of of reverse productivity firewall where they can only see Facebook, not the rest of the internet… ) could see a generated list of what my FB page has in common with my fiance’s.  Harold’s pretty serious about his privacy and has been known to call shopper loyalty cards “some kind of Orwellian bullshit”. I wonder if I could Like that too.

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Talking A Lot

People sure talk a lot in the south. I’ve been helping Harold get set up, which is kind of a special hell because my rage starts building when I have to wait for simple things. I’ve been trying to be less high strung New Yorker about it, but it’s very hard not to oh get out of the way, I can not take this any longer, I’ll just get behind the counter and ring myself up.

I got my hair cut today at the haircutting school in Chapel Hill. I love Hair Metal in Greenpoint the best, but it’s in Brooklyn like everything else awesome.  (Wait, actually my best haircut and color ever was in Austin, Texas, in some place Allison found for me, but that’s even further away. Also, this is irrelevant information. Would you like to hear about the weather next, or shall we just get on with the blog post?)  But cosmetology schools are awesome for inexpensive trims and coloring.

So my hairdresser just got engaged, right when Harold and I did. And her fiance proposed under a waterfall with a Princess Diana-style ring, and then we talked about friends’ engagement stories and upcoming wedding plans.

I feel strange whenever I say I’m getting married. Some of it is being, ahem, an older bride.  My best girlfriend from college, Allison, got engaged nine years before I did, and that was after she’d finished school.

Some of it is that being with Harold means having good company, a peaceful, laughing and affectionate relationship, from which he encourages me to try, to take risks, to pursue interesting things, to explore. Not just lets me, actively encourages and supports, and it’s awesome. But I’m better at being snarky than being amazed.

And now there’s this post-election commentary on single women voting overwhelmingly for Obama, although married women voters skewed Republican. Even ignoring the rhetoric about us single slutty-sluts wanting our free birth control and legal abortions, it’s not hard to see some major ideological shifts between singles and wives. I don’t think I’m changing anything except liking Harold a whole lot, and having a lovely new ring, but what if I am?

Also, hey, I don’t know if you all know this, but once you get engaged, a lot of people suddenly have a lot of advice for your relationship.

I mentioned that to my hairdresser  — the well-meaning nosiness part, not the aging bride bit, the crazy about Harold bit, or the part where I think too much about exit polls — and she agreed wholeheartedly. She says it goes double for young brides, and since she’s eighteen, she gets it more than a post-college bride like me.

I admitted that, actually, more of my friends are married than single, and the bridal advice usually comes from friends in very happy marriages who want me to have the same joy they’ve found, which is a charming hazard of being an over-thirty bride.

“Oh, you look really good for your thirties. My mom’s 36 and you look way younger than she does!”

I made the sound that someone who’s still adjusting to her peer group having babies might make as she realizes that she’s practically a grandmother.  I’m still kind of adjusting to saying my fiance and actually meaning a man that I’m involved with and planning to marry, but I’m sure I’ll have a lot more chances to say it. Because people in the South really do a talk a lot.

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Election Stories

This TapScape piece is about 519 Games’ Campaign Story and trends in how players choose to play in the election narrative. I’m don’t think I fully buy into the idea that the game trends predicted the actual election, even if Campaign Story did call it for Obama a few weeks ago, but the I think analytics raise interesting points about how we engage games and the roles we take on in games.

While it’s not hard to look at election news coverage and find pundits pointing to tiny blips in the statistics to prove pet theories, some interesting stats are revealed.

First, in Campaign Story, Conservative player-candidates are outspending their Liberal counterparts by near three times as much. Really interesting observation, although it’s hard to know whether this means that these players are offline conservatives as well, or that players indulging in escapist, game-playing fantasy, tend towards the narrative of a well-funded, high-rolling conservative campaign. After all, a scrappy, always-broke, grassroots campaign isn’t necessarily the escapist narrative players are looking for in a workday break.

This piece on Yahoo! is actual Election Day coverage, as much as noticing campaign signs in a battleground state in hotly contested election can really be considered reporting. I did get shooed away from taking further pictures at a polling place, which made me feel like a tough investigative journalist. Using my phone camera, with my readership spiraling upwards into the dozens…

It’s very odd to see Meg Stivison – Chapel Hill, NC as the byline. North Carolina didn’t actually support Obama (although the county in which I found these signs and wrote the story did), which isn’t entirely bad for me, because in a fit of election night nerves, I’d rashly promised to stop saying awful things about the state if it went blue. And you know how hard that would be?

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